kudos to mtv for spreading this message tho
|—||Matt Chandler (via littlethingsaboutgod)|
It is so easy to look back and tell yourself that you should have seen certain things coming or that you missed the obvious. At first, it is easy to beat yourself over that and feel like a fool for believing in something that just wasn’t there. But eventually, you need to come to terms with the fact that you didn’t see something coming means that you were so committed to your life and whatever was in it at that moment that you chose to open your heart completely to it, something that not everybody is capable of doing„, and that is nothing to feel foolish about.